LIVING SINGLE was in season two when FRIENDS came on.
It worked because it wasn't boys vs. girls every episode. Joey might plot or scheme with Phoebe or Chandler. Too many of the shows then -- and a lot since -- were written by 50 year old people at the time who had no idea that men and women could be friends and lived in a world, apparently, where people went to this or that room -- living room or dining room, for instance -- based on gender.
FRIENDS was the first series that really reflected the world of young people.
And it was so funny.
Pottery Barn. That's why I'm writing about FRIENDS today.
I went to turn on the TV and I was sad because TBS was showing the last five minutes of the episode. Then I remembered I could start the episode over.
It was so funny.
Rachel was flipping through the Pottery Barn catalogue at the coffee shop when Monica told her that she couldn't buy from that because Phoebe (Rachel's roommate) hates anything mass produced. So Rachel buys a table and lies that it's from Days of Yore. (Stealing Chandler's "yore" joke.) Then she starts buying more stuff. And tells Phoebe it's all from the flea market.
Then she goes over to Ross' apartment to watch movies and she's there before Phoebe. Ross has the same table! She tells him Phoebe can't see it. So Ross covers it with some Pottery Barn sheets. Phoebe loves the sheets but when she asks where he got them, Rachel says at the flea market. Phoebe tells him he's got to learn to spend a little money.
She spills wine on the sheets and Ross is livid. She offers him 80 cents.
Ross gets Rachel back by giving Rachel 60 bucks and telling her to go to that colonial flea market she keeps finding stuff at and to take Phoebe with her. Rachel tries to weasel out of it but Phoebe really wants to go.
Then we see them walking on the street and Rachel saying that she's sorry, the flea market is usually so much better. Then they pass Pottery Barn and Phoebe realizes it's their living room and Rachel has been lying to her. They have everything but the clock! And Phoebe wants the clock! It's everything she stands against but if Rachel's saying that if Phoebe doesn't buy the clock, she'll move out -- No, Rachel tells her, she'd never say that. Phoebe shoots her a look and repeats it. Rachel gets the clue and says, "Yes, yes." And besides, they do have that 60 dollars from Ross.
Meanwhile Joey is dating Jean the model. And they go out to eat with Monica and Chandler. It looks like a great evening.
Until Joey and Jean are alone.
Chandler's so blah and Monica's so loud, Jean says. She's not doing two nights in a row with Chandler and Monica.
Joey lies that Jean is sick and then Jean shows up saying she's going to a play. What's going on?
Joey tells them. And Monica is upset. Chandler is as well.
To make peace, Jean, Joey, Monica and Chandler go out on another double date. Afterward, Joey and Jean go in his apartment -- but Monica and Chandler don't go right into their apartment, instead they linger in the hall.
Jean hated the evening, "We have got to move!"
Monica bursts in, "I knew it! You know you're not so quiet yourself, missy!"
Chandler sticks up for himself and Jean tells him, "You know, I know you're talking but all I hear is blah blah blah."
Monica's ready to fight -- and Chandler is sure Monica can take her -- but Joey sends them out. Leaving, Monica warns Jean that she better never see her in the hall.
Joey and Jean talk, he says Monica and Chandler are like family. Jean says she'll go apologize. She steps out into the hall where Monica's coming out of her apartment carrying the trash. Enraged, she notices Jean, "What did I tell you about the hall!"
Jean explains, "I was just coming over here to apologize for my behavior." For the sake of her friend Joey, Monica agrees to accept the apology. They hug and then walk off in different directions.
"I'll see you," Jean calls cheerfully and then whispers, "or I'll hear you."
Monica heard her. She hits her with the trash bag and says, "That's it, big girl!" Jean runs off and Monica's after her yelling, "You better run!"
It was a funny episode that delivered for every character.
FRIENDS really was a great show.
Going out with C.I.'s "Iraq snapshot:"
Tuesday, May 5, 2020. The Iraq War continues with the death of another US service member, the attacks on Tara Reade continue.
At THE NATION this morning, Kate Manne weighs in on the allegations against Joe Biden:
One evening in the mid-nineties, Lynda LaCasse was smoking a cigarette on the front stoop of her apartment in Morro Bay, Calif., when she was joined by her neighbor and friend Tara Reade. It was an emotional conversation, encompassing custody battles and violence. According to LaCasse, Reade disclosed an incident that occurred when Reade worked for then-Senator Joe Biden in 1993: After she brought him his gym bag, he backed her up against a wall, kissed her neck and hair, put his hand under her clothes, and penetrated her digitally. “I remember the skirt. I remember the fingers. I remember she was devastated.” Reade had wept at the memory; LaCasse urged her to file a police report.
On April 27, Business Insider published this account, corroborating Reade’s prior testimony. LaCasse made it plausible, moreover, that she has no axe to grind: She is a longtime Democrat, with a history of anti-Trump posts on social media, together with recent praise for Biden as well as Bernie Sanders. She even said she still plans to vote for Biden. She also believes her friend Tara Reade should be heard; she believes her, period. “I have to support her just because that’s what happened,” said LaCasse, who added that she came forward without Reade having asked her to: “We need to stand up and tell the truth.”
Such evidence supplements several other accounts that corroborate elements of Reade’s story—from her brother, two anonymous friends, a former colleague, and footage from Reade’s late mother, who called into Larry King Live a few months after the alleged incident in 1993 to seek advice on behalf of her daughter.
Given this strong evidence, why are many people still refusing to believe Tara Reade? Among the primary reasons: an unwillingness to believe that Biden is “the type” and sheer political inconvenience.
We know, alas, that Biden is the type. He has sniffed and kissed the hair of the politician Lucy Flores. Six other women have testified to his touching and kissing them in ways that made them uncomfortable. We also have relevant footage. This is a man with a demonstrated history of handsiness—and a man who so does not understand boundaries that he made jokes last year about having permission to hug and touch people onstage after being confronted about his problem.
The attacks against Tara Reade have intensified. Human trash like Ken Olin whip up rage (wonder how that's going to effect THIS IS US in the ratings) via Twitter, they smear Tara and think they can get away with it. It's no surprise that she walked away from the planned interview with Chris Wallace after the threats against her intensified. People like Ken Olin better be taking responsibility for yelling "Fire!" right now. They know what they're doing, they're trying to destroy her.
They think if they destroy her, it will be on to November with Joe. If they can keep her off the airwaves of CNN, FOX NEWS, MSNBC, CBS, ABC and NBC, no one will hear her and Joe is protected. The hate they are aiming at Tara is a testament to just how strong her story actually is and just how very scared they are.
Since she came forward, the real leaders among the press have been student journalists writing in university publications. Long before THE NEW YORK TIMES and others discovered the story on Easter Sunday, college papers were already discussing and debating the story. Today, Max Teszler (THE DARTMOUTH) offers:
Nobody should ever have to endure the violence that Reade alleges, and nobody wants the presidential nominee of their party to have committed assault. But the truth must sometimes be inconvenient, difficult and painful.
While these details do not guarantee Reade’s allegations are true, I do believe the growing number of corroborations have proven Reade’s claims to be more likely true than not. I hoped my fellow Democrats would similarly evaluate the evidence and acknowledge that there is a non-trivial chance Biden committed assault.
Instead, many liberals on social media have employed truly despicable tactics to not only discredit Reade’s story, but to slander her personally. These range from questions of why she did not come forward earlier to suggestions of her being in cahoots with Russia and Vladimir Putin stemming from a number of pro-Putin blog posts made by Reade. Reade’s political alignment aside, the argument of Russian conspiracy seems far-fetched and would require a wide net of U.S. citizens to be working on Russia’s behalf, including Reade’s brother, former neighbors and former colleague.
Reade’s doubters have also accused her of changing her story and have suggested that the timing of her accusations -- just as the presidential race has narrowed to Biden versus Donald Trump -- is suspicious. But the ways Reade has “changed” her account are entirely consistent with a person slowly becoming ready to tell her full story. In 2019 -- along with eight other women -- Reade accused Biden of uncomfortable touching that didn’t rise to the level of assault. This has led to speculation that her more serious allegations are made-up, concocted to derail Biden at the last minute. But critically, at the time that she made her initial allegations -- in April 2019 -- she acknowledged, “I did not even tell the whole story.”
The Ken Olins don't grasp what's taking place. They are too out of touch. They have no idea of how others see this story, of the hypocrisy that is offending so many. They don't realize just how much damage that does to Joe Biden and will continue to do to Joe.
Wagatwe Wanjuki Tweets:
Many men use the rape scandal du jour to show how they'd handle their own victims coming forward. I notice the men who are particularly vicious and vindictive when they speak about Tara, you know she's a placeholder for the victims they want to remain silent.
Equally true, at some point Joe Biden has to pick his running mate. Once he does, he loses many of his fighters. It's amazing how Kamala Harris hasn't been asked to call out her supporters. Yes, it's a small group, we saw that with the primaries. But they are devoted. They ignore Kamala's actual record and they insist she must be Vice President. So they attack Tara daily. If Joe doesn't pick Kamala, he loses her social media orgy.
It's funny to watch all the women vying for the post lie and pretend Joe has no history that would ever raise an eyebrow. Didn't he physically assault a girlfriend in the 90s? Wasn't she in charge of one of the biggest organizations for women? These are not new rumors. We've noted this story going back to 2006.
If Joe doesn't drop out and isn't dumped, can you imagine the lifetime of damage to whichever idiot is stupid enough to join his ticket and declare herself anti-woman in the process.
If Elizabeth Warren thought her false claim to be Native American turned out to be a nightmare, imagine what it would be like being joined at the hip for all of history with Joe Biden.
US House Rep Ayanna Pressley writes at MEDIUM:
Lucy Flores was the first woman to publicly call out Joe Biden for his inappropriate behavior. She spoke with SLATE's Mary Harris:
Turning to Iraq where another US service member has died. Howard Altman (MILITARY TIMES) reports:
A service member with Combined Joint Task Force – Operation Inherent Resolve died in a non-combat related incident in Erbil, Iraq, May 4.
Shelly Kittleson (AL-MONITOR) observes:
The following sites updated:
At THE NATION this morning, Kate Manne weighs in on the allegations against Joe Biden:
One evening in the mid-nineties, Lynda LaCasse was smoking a cigarette on the front stoop of her apartment in Morro Bay, Calif., when she was joined by her neighbor and friend Tara Reade. It was an emotional conversation, encompassing custody battles and violence. According to LaCasse, Reade disclosed an incident that occurred when Reade worked for then-Senator Joe Biden in 1993: After she brought him his gym bag, he backed her up against a wall, kissed her neck and hair, put his hand under her clothes, and penetrated her digitally. “I remember the skirt. I remember the fingers. I remember she was devastated.” Reade had wept at the memory; LaCasse urged her to file a police report.
On April 27, Business Insider published this account, corroborating Reade’s prior testimony. LaCasse made it plausible, moreover, that she has no axe to grind: She is a longtime Democrat, with a history of anti-Trump posts on social media, together with recent praise for Biden as well as Bernie Sanders. She even said she still plans to vote for Biden. She also believes her friend Tara Reade should be heard; she believes her, period. “I have to support her just because that’s what happened,” said LaCasse, who added that she came forward without Reade having asked her to: “We need to stand up and tell the truth.”
Such evidence supplements several other accounts that corroborate elements of Reade’s story—from her brother, two anonymous friends, a former colleague, and footage from Reade’s late mother, who called into Larry King Live a few months after the alleged incident in 1993 to seek advice on behalf of her daughter.
Given this strong evidence, why are many people still refusing to believe Tara Reade? Among the primary reasons: an unwillingness to believe that Biden is “the type” and sheer political inconvenience.
We know, alas, that Biden is the type. He has sniffed and kissed the hair of the politician Lucy Flores. Six other women have testified to his touching and kissing them in ways that made them uncomfortable. We also have relevant footage. This is a man with a demonstrated history of handsiness—and a man who so does not understand boundaries that he made jokes last year about having permission to hug and touch people onstage after being confronted about his problem.
The attacks against Tara Reade have intensified. Human trash like Ken Olin whip up rage (wonder how that's going to effect THIS IS US in the ratings) via Twitter, they smear Tara and think they can get away with it. It's no surprise that she walked away from the planned interview with Chris Wallace after the threats against her intensified. People like Ken Olin better be taking responsibility for yelling "Fire!" right now. They know what they're doing, they're trying to destroy her.
They think if they destroy her, it will be on to November with Joe. If they can keep her off the airwaves of CNN, FOX NEWS, MSNBC, CBS, ABC and NBC, no one will hear her and Joe is protected. The hate they are aiming at Tara is a testament to just how strong her story actually is and just how very scared they are.
Since she came forward, the real leaders among the press have been student journalists writing in university publications. Long before THE NEW YORK TIMES and others discovered the story on Easter Sunday, college papers were already discussing and debating the story. Today, Max Teszler (THE DARTMOUTH) offers:
Nobody should ever have to endure the violence that Reade alleges, and nobody wants the presidential nominee of their party to have committed assault. But the truth must sometimes be inconvenient, difficult and painful.
While these details do not guarantee Reade’s allegations are true, I do believe the growing number of corroborations have proven Reade’s claims to be more likely true than not. I hoped my fellow Democrats would similarly evaluate the evidence and acknowledge that there is a non-trivial chance Biden committed assault.
Instead, many liberals on social media have employed truly despicable tactics to not only discredit Reade’s story, but to slander her personally. These range from questions of why she did not come forward earlier to suggestions of her being in cahoots with Russia and Vladimir Putin stemming from a number of pro-Putin blog posts made by Reade. Reade’s political alignment aside, the argument of Russian conspiracy seems far-fetched and would require a wide net of U.S. citizens to be working on Russia’s behalf, including Reade’s brother, former neighbors and former colleague.
Reade’s doubters have also accused her of changing her story and have suggested that the timing of her accusations -- just as the presidential race has narrowed to Biden versus Donald Trump -- is suspicious. But the ways Reade has “changed” her account are entirely consistent with a person slowly becoming ready to tell her full story. In 2019 -- along with eight other women -- Reade accused Biden of uncomfortable touching that didn’t rise to the level of assault. This has led to speculation that her more serious allegations are made-up, concocted to derail Biden at the last minute. But critically, at the time that she made her initial allegations -- in April 2019 -- she acknowledged, “I did not even tell the whole story.”
The Ken Olins don't grasp what's taking place. They are too out of touch. They have no idea of how others see this story, of the hypocrisy that is offending so many. They don't realize just how much damage that does to Joe Biden and will continue to do to Joe.
Wagatwe Wanjuki Tweets:
Many men use the rape scandal du jour to show how they'd handle their own victims coming forward. I notice the men who are particularly vicious and vindictive when they speak about Tara, you know she's a placeholder for the victims they want to remain silent.
Equally true, at some point Joe Biden has to pick his running mate. Once he does, he loses many of his fighters. It's amazing how Kamala Harris hasn't been asked to call out her supporters. Yes, it's a small group, we saw that with the primaries. But they are devoted. They ignore Kamala's actual record and they insist she must be Vice President. So they attack Tara daily. If Joe doesn't pick Kamala, he loses her social media orgy.
It's funny to watch all the women vying for the post lie and pretend Joe has no history that would ever raise an eyebrow. Didn't he physically assault a girlfriend in the 90s? Wasn't she in charge of one of the biggest organizations for women? These are not new rumors. We've noted this story going back to 2006.
If Joe doesn't drop out and isn't dumped, can you imagine the lifetime of damage to whichever idiot is stupid enough to join his ticket and declare herself anti-woman in the process.
If Elizabeth Warren thought her false claim to be Native American turned out to be a nightmare, imagine what it would be like being joined at the hip for all of history with Joe Biden.
US House Rep Ayanna Pressley writes at MEDIUM:
I’m
here for an uncomfortable conversation. Not because it’s convenient.
Not because it’s strategic. Because it’s necessary. I am a survivor. I
am an elected official. I am not new to watching survivors bare their
souls, and I am not new to being offered false choices in politics.
For
generations, survivors and advocates have fought to shine a light on
harassment and abuse. We have shown up, we have marched, we have told
our stories. For those involved in the struggle for survivors’ justice,
most of the work doesn’t take place in public, it is late night phone
calls when trauma wraps us in a chokehold, it is tearful conversations
whispered in confidence. It is the slow and steady work of helping each
other heal and rebuild.
But
when the experience does play out in public — as it has with Joe Biden
and Tara Reade — we are called to examine an urgent and visceral
question: what does an authentic path towards healing and justice look
like for survivors in America?
I
speak from personal experience when I say the path often isn’t linear;
for many, taking even the first step takes years. What I know to be true
in this moment is that we do not have a public model of how to get this
right.
When
deep personal trauma is viewed through the skewed kaleidoscope of
public opinion — pundits, commentators, twitter bots — it is difficult
to articulate what getting to the other side looks like. How can healing
occur when wounds are reopened daily, and how can justice be served
when our legal system is broken and our culture deeply flawed?
Our
assumptions and our starting points for these conversations have to
change, and the allegations against Joe Biden are no exception.
Listening to the stories of those who step forward is the baseline. We
say “believe survivors” because, for nearly all of history, the
experiences of survivors have been dismissed and derided by a society
steeped in misogyny and hatred. We advocate that we begin with
assumptions of credibility and move to due process and reconciliation.
We
are in the throes of an election of the greatest consequence — one that
will determine if core rights and tenets of democracy survive in this
nation. The stakes cannot be overstated. But I have no patience for any
person who tells me that is a reason to lower my voice. I reject the
false choice that my party and our nominee can’t address the allegations
at hand and defeat the occupant of the White House.
Lucy Flores was the first woman to publicly call out Joe Biden for his inappropriate behavior. She spoke with SLATE's Mary Harris:
Mary Harris: In the weeks since Tara Reid came out with her
new allegations against Joe Biden. Lucy Flores has gotten back in touch
with her looking to offer support. Lucy knows better than anyone how
vulnerable and accuser can feel. I’m wondering what your conversations
with Tara Reid have been like.
Lucy Flores: I’ve only spoken to her once since she came out
with her full story. And it the entire conversation was more about moral
support. And, you know, giving her whatever feedback I could in terms
of the way in which people are going to come for her, the various things
that she needed to do to protect herself. I think it was more a lot
more practical advice and also just moral support and letting her know
that that I was thinking about her and that I obviously empathize with
everything she’s going through.
Mary Harris: What’s your number one piece of practical advice?
Lucy Flores: My number one piece of practical advice to her
was that she just really needed to take it day by day and to focus on
herself and her truth and her. Why her? Why, yes. Why did you decide to
speak out? Tell me more about that. Well, that’s for me. That’s what
kept me grounded when I was experiencing so much harassment after I
spoke about my interactions was that I had to always focus on why did I
decide to do this? And we talked about those reasons.
Mary Harris: I mean, I’m curious, why did you decide to tell
your story? I’m not sure that I know that. Like what what what your
decision process was.
Lucy Flores: The primary reason was because I began to see
photos emerge of him interacting that way with other women. And there
were stories that were written and there was even a vignette that was
done by Jon Stewart and, you know, making fun of creepy.
Jon Stewart: Uncle Joe Biden left his hands on Stephanie Carter’s shoulders for an estimated 20 expected.
Jon Stewart: You seem tense. Is it the stress of me groping you for 28 straight seconds?
Lucy Flores: And so I had to just constantly be reminded that
he was acting this way, that he was making women feel uncomfortable and
everyone was just laughing about it. It was not being treated seriously.
And I knew from personal experience what that felt like. And it was
wrong.
Mary Harris: For Lucy, telling her own story was a way of
shifting the way the rest of us saw what happened to her, not as an
incident that was laughably awkward, but as an incident where she was
actually harmed. And that gives her empathy for Tara Reid, who seems to
be seeing what happened in her own life through new eyes.
Turning to Iraq where another US service member has died. Howard Altman (MILITARY TIMES) reports:
A service member with Combined Joint Task Force – Operation Inherent Resolve died in a non-combat related incident in Erbil, Iraq, May 4.
The cause of death remains under investigation, but COVID-19 is not suspected, officials said in a media release.
It is CJTF-OIR policy to defer casualty identification to the relevant
national authorities after the next of kin have been notified.
The service member is the seventh to die this year supporting Operation Inherent Resolve, the fight against ISIS and the second to die in a non-combat incident in Erbil.Shelly Kittleson (AL-MONITOR) observes:
The first of several Islamic State (IS)
attacks in Iraq started just before suhoor on May 2, the pre-dawn meal
during the Muslim holy month of Ramadan prior to fasting, and lasted
several hours, Salahuddin council member Subhan Jiyad told Al-Monitor
via WhatsApp later in the day.
Most of those killed were Sunni
locals from the Albu Issa tribe, according to another source who sent a
list of the names of those “martyred.”
This first of several attacks in the
area over a 24-hour period happened in Mukashifa, a town northwest of
Samarra along the main road linking Baghdad and Tikrit. Samarra is a
Sunni-majority city in central Iraq known for its Al-Askari Shrine, or
Golden Dome Mosque, a place of pilgrimage for Shiite Muslims. The town
is also the birthplace of former IS leader Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi.
“Six members of the local Popular
Mobilization Units [PMU] were killed in the attack on a checkpoint,”
council member Jiyad added. “Then, when reinforcements were sent in,
three more were killed by an improvised explosive device [IED] set by
IS.”
Another pre-dawn attack happened in Tal al-Dhahab in the Yathrib district southeast of Samarra.
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